Tuesday, June 26, 2012

One Month Anniversary

Today marks my one month anniversary in Uganda. I can’t decide whether it feels like it has been longer than one month or if I can’t believe I’ve already been here for a month. Time is a different concept in Uganda. As someone put it to me last night it is “the African slow down”, and I think I am having a hard time getting used to the slow pace of life. I know I will soon adapt to this pace but for now I am still in my American state of mind. Let me give you an example of why life here is slower:


Yesterday I went to the mall to print some documents, make a photocopy, and pick up a few things at the grocery store (which is in the mall). In my mind I was going to achieve half the things I needed to do that day before our staff meeting at 11:30.

I left my house, hailed down a boda boda (motorcycle taxi), negotiated a fair price, and then took off to the mall. It was a few minutes before I realized he was going the wrong way and it took another few minutes to explain to him we were going the wrong way and for him to understand where I needed to go. We turned around and headed in the right direction. Once I got to the printing/photocopy place in the mall it took a few minutes to get my documents up and then they wouldn’t print. The employee tried a different computer and a different printer but nothing would print. Then another employee tried to figure out why the document wouldn’t print. Finally we figured out my documents were save in Adobe Acrobat and their computers only have Adobe Reader so they were not going to print. The next closest place to print was in the other mall which is right next door but I didn’t have enough time to go over there. I did manage to get a photocopy of my passport.

After that I went to the grocery store but of course they did not have what I was looking for. So one hour later I am back at the office for our weekly staff meeting and all I have to show for my trip to the mall is one photocopy. I’ll have to try again later. After our 2 and a half hour long staff meeting I ate lunch and prepared to head out and try another grocery store at the other mall. Then of course it started raining which means I am not going anywhere because the only means of transportation is a boda boda. It poured for about an hour. Finally when it was only sprinkling I decided I could face the light rain and go to the mall. So did everyone else in Kampala. The traffic was awful! The roads were also flooding. There was about 4 inches of water on the bottom level of the parking garage. I made it to the store and found the ingredients I needed for our group dinner I was in charge of planning. We fought the traffic again on the way home which was even worse than earlier. My boda driver drove on the sidewalk/grass for a little while.

All in all on Monday it took the entire working day for me to make one photocopy, attend a meeting, and go to the grocery store. If I didn’t go to the grocery store during traditional working hours (hours which don’t really exist here) we would have been eating dinner at 10pm. I still haven’t completely figured out why it takes so long to get one thing accomplished but it can take a whole day to check one thing off your to do list. What I could get done in one day in the U.S. will probably take me a week and a half to do in Uganda.
Welcome to “the African slow down.”

Other than “the African slow down” giving me some trouble I am having a great time so far and I love my job. Sometimes I don’t really know what to do with myself during traditional working hours aka 9-5 because my main job right now is to get to know the kids, the homes as a whole, and the mentors who live with the kids but the kids don’t get home from school until 6pm. HALO has four homes in Kampala and I visit a home every Tuesday and Thursday and sometimes Wednesday and Saturday depending on what is going on elsewhere. Last Saturday I did community service work with the Makerere and Bukesa homes. They cleaned trash out of the overgrown weeds on the side of three roads near the Makerere home and then cleared all the weeds and grass away.
Working hard! Dumping more trash on the pile.

Still more road to clean.
Cleared road



































               

Tie Dye Twins!






































There are now three much cleaner roads in Kampala with more room to walk and drive because the weeds are not taking over the road. After community service I hung out with the kids at their house. Since I work at night and on the weekends I sometimes don’t work all day during the weekdays.

Before I give a recap of the month activities I wanted to briefly explain HALO’s relationship with the Ugandan nonprofit Cornerstone Development. Cornerstone is a Ugandan based NGO that has been around for almost thirty years. Cornerstone has many programs in Uganda which includes providing homes and education for former street children and children who were involved in sexual abuse and/or prostitution. Cornerstone has 12 homes for kids and HALO fully funds and does the programming for 5 of these homes. Since HALO is not a register nonprofit in Uganda we run our program through Cornerstone.

Cornerstone also runs a secondary school for boys and one for girls in Uganda and a few other East African countries. Their secondary schools are also known as leadership academies and they are two of the best secondary schools in Uganda. Cornerstone also has a mentor program which takes upstanding university students and places them in the Cornerstone youth homes where they live and work while attending college. The mentors are the daily care takers for HALO children. The work of Cornerstone probably deserves its own blog entry, but hopefully this brief explanation will serve to help you understand how HALO operates in Uganda. My office is in the Cornerstone office building and I live in the guesthouse located below the offices.

Monthly recap:


- I finished training with my predecessor, Dani, and she went back to the U.S. to prepare for her wedding. She is engaged to the son of the director/founder of Cornerstone. She will return in August to live and work with Cornerstone for the next 5 years. I am now taking on all HALO responsibilities.

- We celebrated Dani and Eric’s wedding by throwing a traditional Ugandan wedding ceremony. The traditional ceremony is called a Kwanjula which translates to Introduction in English. Dani and her family are literally introduced to Eric and his family. The ceremony is basically a long play in which the two families are introduced to each other and the man’s family brings tons of gifts to the woman’s family. This was the first Kwanjula anyone who attended had seen done in English. The ceremony was beautiful and fun. Here are some pictures of the event!

The ceremony from above

Me in my traditional Uganda outift! It is called a Gomesi. The Ugandans looooved seeing white people in their traditional outfits. I even walked down the street in it and got lots of compliments. 

Me and some of the boys from Makerere home.

Some of the mentors in their traditional outfits.


- We also had a few bridal showers for Dani hosted by her various friends in Uganda. They were both really fun and actually the first bridal showers I have ever attended!

- I officially went to all the HALO homes and meet all the kids and mentors. I went to Gulu, about 5 hours to the north, with Dani and spent a few days with our home there. I will visit the home in Gulu every other month.

- I started planning my first art program I will do with the homes.

- I have been brain storming ideas for programs I want to create and implement and also ideas for improving our existing programs.

Mostly this first month in Uganda I have been trying to get used to living here, finding my way around, figuring out what to cook, meeting new people, and learning what my job duties are. I am looking forward to what the next month will bring me here in Uganda and the many months to follow. 

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Cake for Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner: My Birthday in Uganda


Yesterday I turned 23 and did not plan on celebrating very much. However, the wonderful people in Uganda did not allow my birthday to pass without making it a wonderful day. Seeing as I just arrived a week ago and do not know many people very well yet I did not expect to have much of a special day. This was fine with me. Birthdays aren’t a huge thing for me so I was just going to go about my day as usual and maybe go out for a piece of chocolate cake at the end of the day. My day turned out to be so special that I felt the need to write an entire blog post just about this day. So all I am going to share this time is what I did yesterday and why I thought it was so special. 

My day started as it usually does with a nice cup of coffee. I drank the coffee as I played a dice game called Zilch with two other friends who are temporarily boarding in the Cornerstone guest house (which is where I live). After Zilch I headed to the market to get some vegetables for dinner. Next I worked out (P90X kickboxing video). After showering I decided I should actually start working for the day since it was already 1pm. I started up my computer but unfortunately I was interrupted by a giant piece of chocolate birthday cake (so sad). Devastated I couldn’t start my work immediately I dug into the delicious piece of cake. This cake was brought to me by the kind hearted people I’ve lived with for only a few days. I was so warmed by their gesture my day had already been made at this point. But it only got better! I ate a small portion of the giant piece and then started working on a few things. Next I was presented with a beautiful handmade birthday card signed by my coworkers with their well wishes inside. I was again touched by this simple card.
After working on some things and meeting with a few people Dani (my predecessor) and I headed to visit the Lungujja girls home.

Me and the Lungujja girls


I am still making my way to each home for my first visit. The Lungujja girls were very welcoming just as all Ugandan’s I’ve meet so far are. We sat and talked with a few of them as the rest gradually arrived home from school (they don’t get off school until 5pm!). Dani told them it was my birthday and one of the girls was so sweet to go off for a few minutes and write me a really beautiful and kind birthday note. She gave me the note along with a gorgeous handmade necklace. The girls in Lungujja make handmade beads out of recycled paper and then make necklaces and bracelets. I put the necklace on immediately and thanked them many times. Then Dani went out and bought sodas for everyone (a very special treat for our kids). We chatted as we enjoyed our sodas. I had a real coca-cola for the first time in a few years and enjoyed every sip. It was also one of our coworker’s birthdays as well so he came by and enjoyed a soda with us.

The girls sang Happy Birthday to us both and Asiimwe and I were pointing at each other every time they sang "you".







My next stop was the movie theater! I meet the two fine gentlemen who bought me cake earlier at the movies and we saw MIB 3. The movie was pretty good. At home later I ate more of my cake and we played Zilch again. Then I talked to both parents on Skype and told them all about my great day. That’s all. In my opinion it was a perfect birthday. I’ve been in this country for one week and I haven’t even known most of these people for a week. The fact that they all went out of their way to do something for me on my birthday whether it was buying me cake or signing my card or wishing me a good day really shows the quality of people I work with. 


I’ve been very welcomed into the community so far and I think my birthday really showcased how welcomed I am here. Everyone goes out of their way to make sure I’m having a good time and that I feel at home.  I felt comfortable in this community within a few days and I think it usually takes much longer than that in the U.S. to feel comfortable in a new group of people. Overall I just wanted to express how thankful I am to this community for taking me into their lives with such kindness. I had an exceptional birthday and it was all due to the kindness of people I hardly know and just met. Also, at the end of the busy day I realized I had basically eaten that piece of cake for breakfast, lunch, and dinner! I didn't mean to but that's what happened. I ate a mango at some point during the day. Cake for all three meals is definitely a good day!

 

Today (the day after my birthday) at our mentor meeting they made me sit in the middle of the circle so they could sing happy birthday. They also "baptized" me with a Ugandan name. My new Ugandan name is Murungi which translates to beautiful. I am happy with their choice.